The World Bank has assessed the average age of a human being as 78 years, according to which we have only 9 years and 6 months for ourselves. According to this assessment, on an average, 29 years in sleeping, 3-4 years in education, 10-12 years in employment, 9-10 years in entertainment, 15-18 years in other everyday activities such as food drinking, travel, daily work, house Work, etc. In this way, we have only 3500 days or 84,000 hours to do something and complete our dreams.
"The most valuable thing in the world is time". But most people are living in a life of despair now and they are waiting that there will be a miracle in their life, which will change their disappointing life. Friends, that miracle will start from today and right now and you are the person who performs that miracle, because no other person can do that miracle than you.
For this beginning we must change our thinking and beliefs, because- That happens to us what we believe."
According to the scientists, the body of Bumblebee is very heavy, therefore, according to the rules of science, he can not fly. But the bumblebee does not know this and he believes that he can fly, so he flies. First of all we have to change the wrong belief that What happens with us which is written in the destiny. Because if this happens then today we were not worshiping God but criticizing him. We are responsible for whatever happens with us (we are responsible for What we are) Therefore, staying happy or not depends on us only.
"God helps those who help themselves"
If a person thinks that whatever happens with us is not in our hands, then the person either change this wrong belief or do not read this blog.
Rules of life
We are going to start a new end for that we have to follow some rules. These rules will change your life.
(Self Confidence) :-
Confidence means "Believe in Yourself". Friends, self-confidence in our lives is equally important as there is fragrance in any flower, without self-confidence, our life becomes like a living dead. No matter how talented the person is, he cannot do anything without self-confidence. Self-confidence is the foundation of success, due to the lack of confidence, the person doubts the work done by him. Self Confidence is with the same person who is satisfied with himself and who has the wealth of hard work, Hardwork and Focused, Fearless, Commitment, etc.
How To Improve Self Confidence
1- Believe in Yourself, Make smart goals and be committed to fulfilling them. When you meet your goals (Goals), it increases your confidence in self-confidence.
2-Be Happy, Motivate Yourself, Do not be unhappy with Failure, because "experience always comes from bad experience"
3-Think positive, be polite and begin the day with a good job.
4- Nothing is Impossible in this world | The biggest enemy of self-confidence is the "Fear of Failure" to do any task. To remove fear, then do the work that you are afraid of.
5-Speak truth, be honest, do not smoke, work with nature, do good work, help the needy (Be Helpful). Because such actions give you positive power, wrong deeds and bad habits on the other hand drop our confidence.
6- Do the things you are interested in and try to take your career forward in the direction you are interested in. Live in Present, Think Positive, Make Good Friends, .
Independence-
Independence means independent thinking and self-reliance. "The biggest enemy of our happiness is the Dependency, and the present happiness decreases the happiness.
Control your happiness yourself: - Currently the happiness of most people depends on the circumstances. Such people become sad in happy conditions and unfavorable conditions.
For example, if a person’s got success in a work then he will be happy if he does not get then unhappy, Friends should be happy in every situation because effort is in our hands but the result or circumstance is not in our hands. The situation can be either favorable or unfavorable but its response should be good because the response is in our hands. Be self-reliant: - Friends dependency is the enemy of happiness, so as far as possible to reduce expectations from others, adopt self-work and self-reliance should not be unhappy with the actions or thoughts of others, because others' thoughts or actions are not in our control.
"If you become unhappy because of things or situations that are not under your control, then the result is a waste of time and a future"
Live in Present-
Friends, we get 70,000 to 9 0000 thoughts (thoughts) in the day and our success and failure depend on the quality (quality) of these thoughts. According to the scientists, 70% to 90% of most people go to think about things in the past, future and in worthless. The past gives us the experience and we have to plan for the future, but that does not mean that we spend all our time in this. Friends should stay in the present and make it the best because neither we nor the future is our control.
"If you want to be happy and be successful, stop thinking about which we do not have control"
Hard work and Focus
Friends, some scholars have said that success can be found only in the dictionary before hard work. Hard work does not mean physical work, hard work can be done both physically and morally. Experience says that mental effort is more valuable than physical effort.
Some people make targets too big but do not work hard and then keep changing their own goals. Such people only keep making plans. Hard work and drudgingly work make things easier. If you want to achieve the goal then you have to overcome the obstacles in between, you have to work hard, try again and again.
The only way to escape with the unsuccessful people is to change their goals when they get into trouble. "
There are some people who work hard, but once frustrated, they leave the work in the middle, therefore it is very important to have commitment and determination along with hard work. "If a person is unable to succeed even after doing that work, then it means the method of doing it is wrong and he needs to work hard."
Practicality: -
Wherever the practical guy goes, he fills the atmosphere of happiness with such happiness. Such people behave with humility and smile and are always ready to help. Etiquette is the most beautiful beauty without which a person is limited only to the self and the society gives it the title of "selfish"
"When the number of your friends starts increasing, understand that you have learned the magic of behavior."
A liberal guy can go to any area and become their friends who are ready to die for their needs.
Character is the foundation of practicality and characterless person can never become manners. Character is the shadow of a person and in the society, the person is recognized not by the face but by the character. Character is created by moral values, rituals, education and habits.
The greatest feature of the intelligent people is that they are always ready to help. Transparency is an important part of efficiency. Speech has power which can sweeten the atmosphere in the environment and fill it with happiness or it can spread the fire by sparking it.
"Words can change the world" Speaking thoughtfully, talking more in less words, not talking worthless things, finding good, praising others, listening to others and giving importance, being polite, accepting mistakes etc. There are some basic rules of the conversation.
The End
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